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Hi all,
My wife and I just came out of a Chapter 13 (Filed 8/2018, Discharge 8/2023) 5 months ago and we're trying to build our credit and get our life back on track. My wife has always been financially responsible, we just had an emergency come up that set us back real hard, and I had an unbelievable amount of medical bills that we just realized BK was our only way to try to get back to normal. Lawyer was pushing us for Chapter 7, but we wanted to do 13 to at least do the right thing the best we could and get as much money paid back as we could in a structured way.
Anyway, here we are 5 months post-discharge, and we are absolutely horrified to try to apply for anything. We both got a Mission Lane credit card with baby limits based on Credit Karma guarantee (I didn't realize we probably could have gotten better til later, but it was a start) with me a $500 limit, and her a $750 limit. We have not touched any type of credit whatsoever in around 6 years. Both of our credit reports are literally wiped clean minus the Mission Lane cards and our discharged bankruptcies which should fall off in about 16 or 17 months.
We're in a bit of a pickle, and maybe you can offer some advice. First, even though we have these small-limit credit cards, we have become accustomed to a Dave Ramsey type of life and "if we don't have the cash for it, we don't get it." So we're struggling to break off that mind frame. Second, other than a handful of subscriptions, we do not have any reason to have more than one credit card, we're already struggling to find what to pay with it other than like Netflix or something just to put some usage on it. Another problem with the Mission Lane card (And this isn't me not recommending them, they both gave us our first card out of BK), is that transactions take days to post, and so do payments, so even though we pay in full every month, days early, at least one charge pops up or clears right as they report which is always keeping us on edge because I have to stay under $50 to maintain 10% credit utilization and hers is only $75.
I've been lurking on credit forums a while for ideas how to move forward. We had a child during our BK and now our focus is building our credit to be able to take out a loan of around 25,000 or so to start building a house for our family (Loan would cover a fence, some ground leveling, and foundation). The problem is, we dont NEED another credit card, i'm way to scared to even check pre-approvals/pre-qualifications because we're scared to even think about being in debt again. We're good now financially, we've structured our lives to save about 30-40% of our monthly income and its gone real well so far. Some months we cut down on our savings and just have fun so we're not spending life in the prison of always saving, and its worked good for us.
What do you suggest we do? I don't want to take out more credit cards, just for the sake of having credit cards I honestly don't even have a use for right now, and I'm too afraid to even apply for a personal loan or line of credit, even knowing i need multiple times of credit to improve my score. Currently my Experian Fico 8 is 708, Equifax and TU VantageScore is 686 and 678. Credit history is now only like 3 months old due to the 5 years in BK and avoiding credit the year before it.
Can we continue to get good scores just using our Mission Lane cards on one or two things a month and paying in full, or are we really doomed to have to get multiple credit products to juggle that we don't realistically need at this moment just for the sake of improving our score?
Thanks in advance.
Welcome to the forum. There's certainly nothing wrong with living the way you are and I commend you for staying disciplined and focused. I lived for 10+++ years without any type of credit. There will be people who tell you to optimize your scores you need to have 2 to 3 credit cards and an open loan paid down to under 9% of the original balance. That's all fine and good, and also true to a degree but, you should not go into debt simply to increase your credit scores. Finances over Fico.
I personally know people with 2 credit cards and no loans anywhere on their reports and have 800+ scores. Granted, It took them a long time to get there but they're there regardless, so it's completely possible to have excellent credit with limited products.
With that said, I'd recommend you continue to focus on all the right things which you've been doing. Treating a credit card as if it's a debit card will only continue to help you. There's also nothing wrong with having a few credit cards, especially if you can use them responsibly, and to your advantage.
I'd try to get away from the Mission Lane cards and find two, or three cards from prime lenders and/or credit unions (and that doesn't mean you have to go out and get them right this minute. Please, take your time and find cards that best serve your spending and needs). They'll offer better rewards and they're more expedient when it comes to things like posting payments to your accounts while also having the potential to open more doors for you with other products such as loans with better rates for when the need arises.
Congratulations on your progress, and keep up the good work!
A few comments in no particular order:
Chapter 13:
I categorically refuse to do AZEO!








Yea, the Mission Lane is just a stepping stone, and being as we've been avoiding credit like the plague for over half a decade, all that glamour and stuff the wrap around that Credit Karma Guarantee gave us some false sense of security we were practically guaranteed approval, I guess thats the only reason we took the risk to apply.
I'm getting all kinds of pre-approvals on Experian's website for like Credit One bank, Capital One Quicksilver (I even got a preapproval for cap one for good credit products on their direct website too), I'm just too scared of that small print "Pre-approval does not guaranteed acceptance" and wasting a hard pull.
Also, say we do get one, or even two credit cards in the future. Whats the proper time to distance out the applications? Our Mission Lane was issued in October, paid in full every month since (Usually 2 payments a month to keep it under 10% utilization). Also, in the event we do get a better credit card, would we want to close the Mission Lane or let it sit, because I was under the impression closing a credit card could have a big impact to your credit score.
@Tauren1 wrote:Yea, the Mission Lane is just a stepping stone, and being as we've been avoiding credit like the plague for over half a decade, all that glamour and stuff the wrap around that Credit Karma Guarantee gave us some false sense of security we were practically guaranteed approval, I guess thats the only reason we took the risk to apply.
I'm getting all kinds of pre-approvals on Experian's website for like Credit One bank, Capital One Quicksilver (I even got a preapproval for cap one for good credit products on their direct website too), I'm just too scared of that small print "Pre-approval does not guaranteed acceptance" and wasting a hard pull.
Also, say we do get one, or even two credit cards in the future. Whats the proper time to distance out the applications? Our Mission Lane was issued in October, paid in full every month since (Usually 2 payments a month to keep it under 10% utilization). Also, in the event we do get a better credit card, would we want to close the Mission Lane or let it sit, because I was under the impression closing a credit card could have a big impact to your credit score.
A few other comments:
Chapter 13:
I categorically refuse to do AZEO!








@Horseshoez Really solid advice, and I actually read your journey post about your BK ride before I even posted, was pretty inspiring.
A few questions in regards to your suggestions. NFCU and Pentagon CU, are those for veterans or all applicants? I'm a veteran and have had a USAA CC with a small limit, but it was included in the bankruptcy as it was an all or nothing kind of deal.
Do you know if USAA is bankruptcy friendly after a period of time, or are there other options for veterans like USAA?
@Tauren1 wrote:@Horseshoez Really solid advice, and I actually read your journey post about your BK ride before I even posted, was pretty inspiring.
A few questions in regards to your suggestions. NFCU and Pentagon CU, are those for veterans or all applicants? I'm a veteran and have had a USAA CC with a small limit, but it was included in the bankruptcy as it was an all or nothing kind of deal.
Do you know if USAA is bankruptcy friendly after a period of time, or are there other options for veterans like USAA?
Thanks, yeah, my recovery ride was interesting and I started out pretty stupid by racking up lots of hard pulls with nothing to show for them but one secured card.
Regarding NFCU and PenFed, the former is exclusively for military members and their families, the latter can be used by anyone (I'm a member of both). Regarding USAA, I have no experience with them, but I have heard anecdotally they are not bankruptcy friendly.
And thank you for your service.
Keep us posted.
Chapter 13:
I categorically refuse to do AZEO!








Check Cap One and Merrick Bank.
My first rebuild card was Cap One QS and I got a $3k SL.
GL!
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Congratulations on your chapter 13 discharge and welcome to the forum!
There are many different ways to rebuild your credit without going all in with all credit cards. During my rebuilding phase, I learned the hard way that USAA is not bankruptcy friendly. If I were you, I'd grab my DD214 and join Navy Federal. The rates on CD's are worth it even if you don't get a credit card or loan with them. I would apply for a credit card with Navy Federal, just to have a prime card in your wallet. You should also take a look at their loan products. You might be pleasantly surprised.
I understand the mindset you have about charging to spend. Everytime I make a purchase, I ask myself do I really need this purchase and do I have the cash to pay for this purchase? I personally use credit cards instead of debit card so I can max out on cash back. For example, my grocery purchases are made on my Amex so I get 6% cash back? Why pay 100% cash for groceries when I can use my card for a 6% discount and I keep the cash in my checking account earning interest for 25 days or so? Just a thought.
I have a friend from my old employer that had to file chapter 7 a year after I did. She did her rebuild with subprime cards and now has only 2 credit cards(one with SDFCU and the other with Mountain America CU), a personal line of credit of $10,000 for emergencies with SDFCU, and a car loan with Navy Federal. Her FICO is in the low 800's. Now remember her bankruptcy is already off her CR. It is possible to a 800 score, it just takes time.
Keep doing what you are doing.
Guyatthebeach