Sorry to hear this. Unfortunately I had my Venture and my Chase Hyatt cards both compromised within two weeks of each other. It's nothing I did, as the Chase compromise was something that originated within Chase. That card was never even out of the house, was less than a month old, and it happened. My Venture card had also not been used for several months.
These things happen and it's frustrating and takes time to sort it out and get it fixed when it happens multiple times. I understand how you feel after this happens over and over again - you just feel violated.
The people who do this are very good at it and could have lifted your card numbers from anywhere - a place you shopped, or in the case of Chase, something (or someone) internal to Chase had to do with the issue.
Review your accounts regularly so you can keep on top of it. I've found this to be a good strategy.
It's going to be ok 