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girlie
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DEPRESSED!!!!!!!!!!

i have been working diligently for the past year to pay on time, pay down my debt, write good will letters (most ignored or not received well), read this forum and apply all your great advice and generally rebuild my credit.  i was recently approved for delta sky miles and even received a cli increase almost immediately after requesting so my total cl is $3000.  i thought i was on the upswing and i was putting my credit problems behind me.  NOT SO my mortgage broker tells me. long story short i have raised my scores from 466 tu, 490 ex, 535 eq to 678 tu, 667 ex, 661 eq.  i thought i would be in decent shape when shopping for a mortgage even though there are many, many, many rolling lates.  i was just advised by my mortgage broker that she has to get me a subprime loan.  i may not even purchase anything at this point.  i might just wait it out and see what happens.
 
what really kills me is that a friend of mine filed bankruptcy and his score was in the 700's two years after filing.  here i am paying back every friggin cent i owe and after 15 months i am still away from the elusive 700 club.
 
sorry for sniveling, but i am having one heck of a pity party for myself todaySmiley Sad
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@girlie wrote:
i have been working diligently for the past year to pay on time, pay down my debt, write good will letters (most ignored or not received well), read this forum and apply all your great advice and generally rebuild my credit. i was recently approved for delta sky miles and even received a cli increase almost immediately after requesting so my total cl is $3000. i thought i was on the upswing and i was putting my credit problems behind me. NOT SO my mortgage broker tells me. long story short i have raised my scores from 466 tu, 490 ex, 535 eq to 678 tu, 667 ex, 661 eq. i thought i would be in decent shape when shopping for a mortgage even though there are many, many, many rolling lates. i was just advised by my mortgage broker that she has to get me a subprime loan. i may not even purchase anything at this point. i might just wait it out and see what happens.
what really kills me is that a friend of mine filed bankruptcy and his score was in the 700's two years after filing. here i am paying back every friggin cent i owe and after 15 months i am still away from the elusive 700 club.
sorry for sniveling, but i am having one heck of a pity party for myself todaySmiley Sad




Are those your FICO scores (678-667-661)? If so, how loyal are you to your mortgage broker? Seems like you could certainly do better than subprime, unless there are other factors affecting approval.
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Anonymous
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I feel your pain - BIG TIME.
I'm looking into a third job....Seriously.
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Anonymous
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I'm confused.   Those scores don't seen to be sub-prime.   But then again I have heard a middle 680 is prime.   You're almost there (TU 667).  Keep working on it .   You can do it.   You've come a long way.   And keep in mind that higher interest rates for you mean more money to the lender.   Check with another broker.
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girlie
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yes those are my fico scores she pulled and the same that i have pulled from myfico.  she is excellent!  i work in the real estate industry and i have referring her to my clients many times over so i don't think the problem is her.  i am just wondering when does this credit stuff get easier.  when will my mistakes from the past stop haunting me?Smiley Sad
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girlie
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i know those scores don't seem subprime, but i guess it has to do with all the lates on my credit report and believe me there are many.  just feeling very down because i have been so diligent.
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Anonymous
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girlie,
 
If you want, I'll PM you the contact info for a broker who's very knowledgeable in both mortgages and credit.
 
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Bruiser
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i feel your pain also,..
i'm going through a stressful time right now, i'd be happy to just get a subprime loan
i'm waiting for the stamp of approval from the bank...but it has been hell
 
my loan is going to be 8%, but i found the house i want, and i've looked a lot
i don't want to wait until i have a better score and lose the house
 
my middle fico is 642
 
if you want to feel any better,..you can listen to my story of trying to get this loan,...its been hell in a handbasket
 
BK 7 Filed: 08/07/15
BK 7 Discharged: 11/04/15
Discharge Scores: Equifax (572) - TransUnion (586) - Experian (511)
Goal: 700+
Credit Cards: NFCU nRewards ($500) - CapOne Platinum ($300) - CapOne QuicksilverOne Rewards ($300) - Victoria's Secret ($250) - Firestone ($1200)
Auto Loan: NFCU ($34.6K @ 7.7%)
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girlie
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noah,  thank you but i don't think the issue is the broker.  she is meeting with a lender rep later today and then will have more information.  i know more later and might hit you up on it later.  thanks for all your supports guys.Smiley Indifferent
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Anonymous
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Don't get discouraged.
That was me last night, but I feel better now.
 
The point is that you are doing things and making steps and you are seeing an improvement. 
 
Think about it carefully, if you can wait a few months before buying a house then I might be worth it to wait, let the lates age some more.
 
You're doing good, keep doing exactly what you're doing.Smiley Wink
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