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I am new to the forum here and I am sure this topic is discussed ad nauseum but I did not see anything specific to my situation. So, I apologize if this seems tedious to long time posters.
Here is my situation.
I have a decent paying job in a career that is fairly secure in employment. For several years I was able to build a little savings and build my credit up pretty well. We weren't living lavishly but had some creit card debt that I was able to keep in front of and never got behind. About 2 years ago, things started getting a little shaky. My wife began having terrible health and the doctor bills and medication bills began to mount a little. I was able to handle these bills, but needed to start using credit a little more for everyday items. mainly groceries and gasoline. Birthday presents for kids, etc. I exhausted the bulk of savings before I did this. I had two creit cards and wound up maxing them out while the medical bills continued to mount. Then I had a medical issue that kept me out of work for awhile and required surgery. Also, we have been having terrible luck with vehicles lately. So, I missed a couple paychecks, and at the same time, my wife lost her income, and got into some really hotwater, financially. We have managed to keep the house, utilities, food and gasoline going, but there just isn't much left over to pay credit card debt. Therefore, payments get missed and I have to play catchup.
I'm to the point that I am considering picking an account to pay off and throwing every available dollar at it until it is paid and then move on tot he next. However, that would mean some accounts go unpaid for several months. I just can't bring myself to do that, but at the same time, paying minimum payments on several accounts and not really able to put any meaningful dents into anything jsut seems like I am spinning my wheels. In the meantime, medical bills are outstanding and it all so overwhelming. For someone that spent alot of time building up some credit and savings over several years and basically having the whole house of cards come crashing down in a few months (was able to keep it togeter for about 18 months and then it all came crashing down) this is very frustrating and feel like I will never work out of it. Any strategy or advice from this forum would be appreciated. I'll take anything at this point.
First thing to focus on is income. It doesn't make any sense to work through the mess if there's no money for housing, food, etc. It your income back to where it was prior to all of this?
Yes. My income never wavered. When I was out on disability, I woulnd up short on a few paychecks but my salary was the same. The main problem was the dr. bills from surgery and my wife's health bills. Needing to use credit to stay afloat and then just getting overwhelmingly behind. Even though my income hasn't changed the bills have piled up to an unmanageable level. The medical bills don't stop coming, either.
Very bad financial decisions that I made in desperation and panic have brought me here. Now I can't rely on credit to get me through tight patches. I don't have any fear of losing my house or anything like that, but I have creditors that are getting pretty ticked off at me. Basically, I've learned my lesson to not make panicky financial moves, but I can't figure out how to get out of the debt game. Its my one problem in life. If I could figure it out and be done with it in a couple years, I am sure I could have a longe happy life.
If I was in that situation, I would do my best to increase my income and decrease my expenses. I'd focus on the basics first like housing, food, utilities, and then I'd add in there the minimums to the CCs at least and any other fixed monthly oblgations. Next, I would take whatever is left over and work out a budget plan with your medical providers. IMO, list all of your debts, and while paying minimums that are needed to keep from a default, throw any extra cash at your lowest balances first. Why? For a couple reasons: 1) if something were to happen again, then at least there will be fewer accounts in jeopardy because some would have been paid off. 2) Per FICO scoring, for those that report, more $0 balances reporting will lead to a better score. And 3) Psychologically, you'll feel better with more debts paid.
Per decreasing expenses, I'd go crazy if I had to to be debt free. I'd cancel cable and any subscriptions like newpapers, etc. If I had both a cell and a home phone, I'd cancel one. I'd stop any savings or investing plans (e.g. it doesn't make sense to earn 10% on avg. in a 401(k) if you are paying 20%+ in APRs per your CCs). I'd postpone any hobbies as they are expense killers at times. I'd look at every transaction made in checking(s) and CC(s) and see what I wasted money on and vow never to do it again. I'd also hide or cut up my cards until I had the debts paid off.
I'd also reposition money. If I got a tax refund, then I'd adjust my W-4 to reflect a $0 balance in taxes owed at the exnd of the year (you can tell your employer to withhold $x as opposed to 1 dependent, 2, etc.). I'd do the same for state. If I had a savings in a non-tax qualified plan like in an ordinary savings or savings bonds, or a whole life policy or something like that, then I'd liquidate those to throw at the debt (be mindful of an emergency savings though). If I had any assets to get rid of like an extra car I'd sell that too. I'd also go through the house and have a yard sale or get to know ebay or craigslist very well in getting rid of unwanted junk.
Finally, I'd look at my income. There are 4 ways to make income in this country: employment, self-employment, big biz ownership, and investments. I'd tap into all four and diversify your income like you should do with investments. While you may no be ready for investing because of the debt, it won't hurt to add extra income via another job or a biz of your own. That way, if your paychecks bobble in the future due to some life event, you'll still have income coming in. Unfortunately most people put all of their eggs in one basket and most folks are a job loss and 30-60-90 days away from a BK.