Yes, the customer service thing is pretty infuriating, for all credit repair inquiries. It seems that the person is ignorant or well-trained, it's hard to tell which. I'll be sure to ask for a manager, though I'll probably still get the run around.
And, yes, Wells Fargo has never struck me as customer friendly. I've also had the overdraft conundrum. They told me that they fund larger purchases first because "we imagine those are more important," when they could have covered each small purchase and marked one overdraft fee for the larger purchase. And for a period they charged $2 for customer service calls, but they've long since dropped that fee. So, all in all, I wouldn't mind switching banks anyway...maybe the honesty will come through when I try use this as leverage.