As with all things, it depends.
First, the SOL again. Bankrate also says 3 years for CCs.
However, they list WA as 3 years and KY as 6 years. There are differing opinions, apparently in caselaw, in both states. The AG won't clarify it because the courts have ruled in different directions.
Did find someone on CIC who said VA judges have ruled 5 years for CC SOL.
Assuming you are out from under the SOL, to wait it out would depend. Do you have paper or online copies of your CRs showing something to effect of "schedule to appear until <month> <year>"? If so, what are they showing?
Since the account was opened in '02, DOLP in '03, the DOFD has to be between those. This means it drops from your reports in either 2009 or 2010. If you aren't planning to buy a home before then, you could wait it out.
Minimally, you could wait out a 5 year SOL in 2008. I would try to contact the state AG's office and ask them about CC SOL and whether there's any caselaw on the subject. They might say no, talk to a lawyer, but you might be able to coax something outta them.
Next step, try an naca.net lawyer, and you might luck out and get a free phone consult. Worked for me.
Finally, if all else fails, use the VSB to 30 minutes with a lawyer for no more than $35.
Since you were in SC, and they have a solid 3 year SOL, it's possible you slipped by Cap 1 and they haven't realized you're in VA now.