Cantgetahead -
Your situation is not the AU situation that we were addressing in this topic. What you stated is perfectly legit and I don't think many here would have too much of a problem with it. But lets be honest here, you're still using someone elses credit for your gain. you may be making the payments etc., but if you went in there yourself and applied for that same account, would they have approved you ? maybe, maybe not.
AU's are usually riding on someones coat-tail. In your situation, I can at least deal with it. But if you look at the original post, and many of the ones in these forums .. they are from people wanting a quick boost to their score so THEY can get a quick loan approval, or better rate ... neither of which they deserve or have earned themselves. This is what I and others refer to as "beating the system" yes.
There are a lot of us in here who have taken many many years to educate ourselves and get our credit on track the proper way. It takes a LOT of hard work and diligence. I've never asked or used any relatives or friends for their credit, to be an AU to help me. People on here are trying to use the AU thing in an unjust way. The mortgage industry realized this a few years back, and FICO has finally put a period to it. That right there should tell you the practice is morally wrong, and perhaps legally wrong on some level.
So I will respectfully partially disgree with your notion that you deserve to have a good standing AU account on your report. Unless you can come to me and tell me that you could have applied on your own and been granted a credit account like the one you have now, then you too are benefiting from the work of another. And therefore, deserve is certainly not a word I would associate with that. AU's in my 10 years of credit repair experience, with regards to these credit forums, are usually trying to beat the system yes. No doubts about it. You have at least acted responsibly towards the status, and used it in a proper manner, so I don't group you in with the others. Best wishes,
sparky