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They are permitted to change their prior position. You are in negotiations.
You can counter offer to pay in exchange for either deletion of their collection or agreement not to report settled for less.
Don't pay it. Continue to negotiate. It's December and nearing the end of the year. See where that gets you. Keep calling until you find someone to work with you. Get it in writing and be prepared to pay immediately.