Agreed, its hardly fair and personally I play the system only for the sake of the fact that we need it but hope each and every day that the system is improved or just eliminated. Only time will tell and in the meantime don't let them get to you and remember what is fair and what IS are almost never the same. 
@tryingtoreach700, thank you for adding that, I was beginning to think my efforts were futile.
@Derrick_Evens, the fact is that this is not just academic, its FACT and you need to accept that your experience is limited to your perspective and other factors can make it look like something they are not. If all you care about it your experience, then take it, do what you want and we wish you the best, but if you came here to learn and know, then you might give some credit to the experiences of the THOUSANDS who know what you are saying to be wrong. Now I am all for individual right to their opinion but there has to be a limit to pride when its just simply wrong. No one would question birds can fly, experience or academically, just like you would know that a man can't get pregnant. Now would someone who lived next door to the man who did claim in their experience it can happen, when in fact we know that biologically, it was a woman who got pregnant?
I don't want to make a big thing about this and I just wanted to see if I can bring this to an end before you or either of us say something we will regret. If you are happy with your experience, however wrong, that's your business and we respect that but you need to realize that we know what we know and its contrary to what you are saying, simple as that too, you need to respect that as well.
