Hello All, Been on this forum for a few years and have really started to clean up my credit! Still some work to do but am in a WAY better position than I was 3 years ago. Fast forward to now- I am engaged to a fantastic guy who owns his own house, and has his own car with financing so has to have some knowledge of credit right? Last night- I found out he hasn't paid his mortgage in two months. This is the 3rd time I've had to have a conversation about the importance of bills being paid on time, as now it affects BOTH of us. He didn't tell me he was behind, and that is also a big issue for me, as I do make more money and would have helped out. Which he knows. I know that he makes just enough to cover bills and a has just a little bit of dispoable income after, so I just don't know if I should be making a huge deal about this as I am, or if I should just make an effort to sit down with him twice a month to get him on track. He is contrite, feels terrible, and has an awful day with my being upset with him. But I can't help feeling frustrated and also like I'm babysitting. Any married couples want to weigh in?!?!?
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