This is going to be very rough because you need to resolve the issue that led to the bankruptcy since there are LONG waiting periods before refiling bankruptcy. For example, gamblers need to get their gambling addiction mostly in the rear view mirror before filing and do everything to avoid stepping into a casino such as self-exclusion to ALL nearby casinos. In your case, the only thing I've found that works reliably is to live on a cash or debit card basis for the rest of your life. Talk therapy and medications can work, but I've found that treatment benefits wane and relapse occurs often. Bad things will happen from time to time and you'll want that dopamine high. Which means the only way to avoid retail therapy is to have very limited access to money and zero access to credit with the other spouse guarding the money and credit cards. This is much easier to implement on a non-working spouse so I have absolutely no idea how you could do this.
I wouldn't be too concerned if you end up being banned for life from many of the largest credit card issuers in the country. That's the cost of doing business with the bankruptcy court. It is what it is and you can't do much about it so it's not worth worrying about. There are many other fish in the sea as far as credit cards. The spending issue is much more important.
