RR, I don't know who you are, and you don't know me. You don't have the right to say the things you posted.
I wasn't blaming anyone for my past bankruptcy, the judgements, or the collections. I was simply venting that I didn't get the card even though I'm doing what I can at this time to improve my credit rating. I had hoped that since others had had some success inspite of the baddies on their CR that I might be able to also get this particular card.
RR, up until I got sick in 2001, both my husband and I had very good credit and had less than $2k in CC debt. Our only debts were our vehicles, our home and maybe 3 credit cards. So, unlike most people who simply racked up credit card debt and the like and got themselves in debt up to their eyeballs, we were very cautious and responsible with using our credit worthiness.
If you must know, I was very ill and we thought that I might be dying. Without proper insurance, my illness put us in a pickle with outstanding debts. Then, my husband had to take a huge pay cut which meant we weren't able to make ends meet. That's when we had to file BK to save our home 4 years ago. Although, none of this is your business is it?
Also, as for the Tribute card, etc., it's my decision not yours whether I decide to pay their fees. If it
doesn't make sense to me based on what I feel I want to pay in fees to rebuild my credit, and I'm not asking you whether I should do it or not, why are you baffled? I never once thought you were crazy for being so darn paranoid about applying for credit. In fact, I was empathetic and could imagine how you felt.
RR, before you start giving people advice and making assumptions as to why they're in the midst of credit rebuilding or even why they may have filed BK, you should think first and consider that you don't know their situation. Also, don't make assumptions about why people are venting. Just try to show a little compassion because your brand of tough love is just plain rude and judgemental.