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Anonymous
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Re: HELP

Thanks to everyone who replied. We are still chuggin' along trying to get this done.
 
We did call all the backdoor numbers for the cards she was denied for - but she was still denied. She has 3 cc's now, so thats enough. She just wants to get her car in her name - and I want it out of my name.
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haulingthescoreup
Moderator Emerita

Re: HELP

Give it another whack in 6 months, with perfect payment on the cards.

If you don't want to try that soon, go for one year. Good luck!
* Credit is a wonderful servant, but a terrible master. * Who's the boss --you or your credit?
FICO's: EQ 781 - TU 793 - EX 779 (from PSECU) - Done credit hunting; having fun with credit gardening. - EQ 590 on 5/14/2007
Message 22 of 26
Watchmann
Valued Contributor

Re: HELP

My question is, who is paying all the charge cards and car loan?  Your daughter, or mom and dad?  Setting your child up with good credit is admirable, but just be sure she is mature enough to realize it is her responsibility to manage it, and NOT to consider it as some sort of income to be spent.  Too often when parents are paying the bill the kids don't learn anything, run up the tab, and they flop when they eventually fly out of the nest.  Don't be too much of a helicopter parent.
 
Call me old fashioned, but I question the sanity of setting an 18 year old up with extensive and multiple lines of credit when she is still a student.
 
Agree with the comment about how an 18 yo student ends up with an 800 FICO.  But the industry fell into the trap of primarily only looking at FICO scores when extending credit over the last couple of years.  The whole scoring system is taking a well deserved rap for foisting a three digit number as the arbiter of whether a person is a candidate for a loan or not.  In the future I think we'll see more questioning on the ability of the individual to actually pay a loan off.




Message Edited by Watchmann on 06-26-2008 10:32 PM
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Anonymous
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Re: HELP



Watchmann wrote:
My question is, who is paying all the charge cards and car loan?  Your daughter, or mom and dad?  Setting your child up with good credit is admirable, but just be sure she is mature enough to realize it is her responsibility to manage it, and NOT to consider it as some sort of income to be spent.  Too often when parents are paying the bill the kids don't learn anything, run up the tab, and they flop when they eventually fly out of the nest.  Don't be too much of a helicopter parent.
 
Call me old fashioned, but I question the sanity of setting an 18 year old up with extensive and multiple lines of credit when she is still a student.
 
Agree with the comment about how an 18 yo student ends up with an 800 FICO.  But the industry fell into the trap of primarily only looking at FICO scores when extending credit over the last couple of years.  The whole scoring system is taking a well deserved rap for foisting a three digit number as the arbiter of whether a person is a candidate for a loan or not.  In the future I think we'll see more questioning on the ability of the individual to actually pay a loan off.




Message Edited by Watchmann on 06-26-2008 10:32 PM


My daughter is paying her charge cards and car loan. Although the car is currently in my name, she has been working full time for a year while finishing high school online - she has made every single payment on the car from day one. She has paid for her car insurance and gas the entire time. She also pays for her cell phone bill.  She has been an AU on one of my accounts for almost a year - had her own card and was free to charge whatever she wanted, and knew that she always had to pay what she charged on it by the date due - in full.
 
She is not an irresponsible teenager and I am not an irresponsible parent. She has worked hard and is proud to be able to pay her own bills. I didn't have parents who taught me the do's and don'ts of credit..  I'm going to make sure she knows. In 5 years when she's ready to buy a house, etc, she is going to be ready and get the best interest rates because she will have an unblemished credit score. And when she is my age, she will have a 20 year credit history instead of 12.
Message 24 of 26
techgirl
Frequent Contributor

Re: HELP

I agree with Timothy - AZ Federal Credit Union - they helped us and our daughter who is now 21 and in school.
05/12: approx 680 across the board
04/08 EQ: 730 TU: 748 EX: 718
03/08: EQ: 713 TU: ? EX: ?
12/07: EQ: 689 TU: 711 EX: 721
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haulingthescoreup
Moderator Emerita

Re: HELP


@Anonymous wrote:

....She is not an irresponsible teenager and I am not an irresponsible parent. She has worked hard and is proud to be able to pay her own bills. I didn't have parents who taught me the do's and don'ts of credit.. I'm going to make sure she knows. In 5 years when she's ready to buy a house, etc, she is going to be ready and get the best interest rates because she will have an unblemished credit score. And when she is my age, she will have a 20 year credit history instead of 12.


Well said!

Good for her, and good for you for showing her the ropes now.
* Credit is a wonderful servant, but a terrible master. * Who's the boss --you or your credit?
FICO's: EQ 781 - TU 793 - EX 779 (from PSECU) - Done credit hunting; having fun with credit gardening. - EQ 590 on 5/14/2007
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