No credit card required
Browse credit cards from a variety of issuers to see if there's a better card for you.
My condolences.
Was this a joint account? Was dad or anyone else on the account? And is it a community property state they live in?
If joint account holder, Dad can be held responsible, but don't let a CA bully him. A community property state, he can also be held responsible. Many here will agree it is the moral thing to do to pay the bill, even if there is no longer a legal responsibility to do so.
Usually, it there is an estate, creditors will be notified and paid from it. If there was life insurance, debts do not have to be paid from it.
I will try to pull up the link and another thread concerning this.
Just don't let Dad make anymore promises to this CA until you get some more answers here.
Mod's please delete this link if I should not have drug up a locked thread. It did have alot of suggestions that were useful. I know it got heated, and I wish it had not. Death is a part of living and it is something we will all go through. I am STILL attempting to have my grandmother's will probated. No easy task, I will tell you all that. I know alot think it's moral to pay the bills, but I do not have the money to pay for everything she owes, but I am doing my best to get to everything I can paid out of her estate. So please, nobody pass judgement. Some people are in different situations and may not have the means (but do have the morals) to pay.
stef37 wrote:Mod's please delete this link if I should not have drug up a locked thread.
IMO, fine by me so as long as the discussion doesn't repeat here.
@oracles wrote:
From the many post you have written, it indeed shows you have the
morals to pay stef. You have been a very caring and supportive person
here in these forums. Once again, i think if it impedes your own
living, you should try to find how not to pay. You have lost enough. No
one in this world has the right to pass judgment against anyone.
Thank you. I am trying. My HHI is not near enough to take on the hospital bills that insurance did not cover, but I have found that calling and working with the creditors to pay something, it is better than nothing. So far, most have complied. When a prolonged illness and hospital stay are involved, things can get rather ugly financially even for those who are well off.
After reading that thread again, I forgot how bad it got. Sorry llecs. I understand if you remove the link.
stef and others,
thank you for your replies (already!) I wanted to clarify a couple things. 1) I do think that my Dad was at least listed as an "authorized user" on the account even though he was never issued a card.
2) I do think he wants to repay the debt.
3) I am suspicious of this "Citibank Deceased Cardmember Services" center based in Minneapolis, MN. Are they real? Why are they all over the board in trying to seek different payments amounts? and what about the "no interest accrual" they are talking about?
4) What are the pros and cons of negotiating the payback amount (if he has to). And what must he do to make sure he follows the rules so that it doesn't muck up his credit or come back to haunt him from a scavenger collector?
5) What timeline constraints may he be under? The CC agency seems to want to rush repayment and that is just not realistic for my father. He and my grandmother are on a pretty strict budget now.
Thanks again for all of your help.
You are welcome Cheynne, and I am sorry this is what brought you to our forum.
I would suggest having your Father contact with an attorney to see for sure what his legal responsibilty is and if this is a legitimate company. It may be cheaper (and safer) than trying to deal with a company I couldn't even google. Citibank exist, but I found some absurd things about them collecting on deceased accounts.
If he is AU only and not in a community property state, it can be disputed off his reports if they do place it there. So, that should not affect his credit.
I again wouldn't let them bully him into something. Most attorneys will allow a first visit to ask about a situtation without charge.
Good luck to you and again, I am sorry for your loss.