I didn't know that "Crossing the Rubicon" meant just losing all joy in getting new cards. If that's the definition, then I passed it when my husband and I had over 15 cards with a combined buying balance of around $130,000!
We used to joke (when housing prices were much much lower in the Northeast) that we could buy a condo on our credit cards!
I attempted to close many of them, but was told not to because, even though we didn't use them at all, our credit score was partly based on our credit limit as opposed to our actual credit card debt.
An attorney friend thinks of credit card companies as "pimps". The way they entice us to "get a new card" and the glamour of having so much "trust" placed in us by the "big money banks".
I keep careful track of all of our finances and I love the Internet for that. It is so much better to catch an error on the day it is made then to get that letter (which always comes on a Saturday when no one can help you) and have to call back on Monday.
When we were younger and had only a few credit cards, our FICO was always over 800, even as high as 854! We fell into the trap and had to declare bankruptcy. Our FICO was then 650 and no one but no none would even give us the time of day.
One good thing that our attorney friend told us was before anyone declares bankruptcy they should get at least two new credit cards and not use them until after the bankruptcy is declared and final. Those two cards will not go into the bankruptcy because they were never used and because the issue date would be either just before or just after the bankruptcy.
We did that and now 6 years later with our bankruptcy just about over, we have another 10 cards with a combined balance of over S100,000. For a while after the bankruptcy, if they sent the card, I took it, because if we applied they would deny us.
Our FICO is back up to around 730, but I bet it will never go back to the high previous levels. It was enough though to get a 6.35% rate on the car I bought this year instead of the 9% my husband had to pay after the bankruptcy.
Now I use only one credit card and my debit card to buy. If I can't afford what I want on that, then I just wait.
Message Edited by September on
10-02-2007 06:25 AM