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I make $100k a year and I'm still broke. Need some help.

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Lel
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Re: I make $100k a year and I'm still broke. Need some help.


newtoit wrote:
Some very good ideas.  Thanks!   Regarding the 'unplug unused things'.   There are things in my son's room that never get used (unless he comes home) that are plugged up.  Do things that are off but plugged in really use that much electricity?  Never thought of that.  I'm going to start looking for things to unplug.

Yup, a lot of things that are off (like stereo equipment and televisions) continue to draw small amounts of electricity.  Individually it may not seem like a lot, but added together the electricity use can be substantial, depending on how much gear you have in your home.

 

Lawrence Berkeley Laboratories used to have some pretty good info about this, but as of right now the link is not working.  Hopefully it's just a temporary thing, you can try visiting http://standby.lbl.gov

 

 

ETA: link is working now. 

Message Edited by Lel on 08-31-2009 09:23 AM
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Anonymous
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Re: I make $100k a year and I'm still broke. Need some help.

I have baseboard heating.  In the summer I disconnect them because they use electricity even when off.
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Anonymous
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Re: I make $100k a year and I'm still broke. Need some help.

I am surprised that no one has suggested refinancing my house.  That thought had crossed my mind. 
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wndrwmn78
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Re: I make $100k a year and I'm still broke. Need some help.


@Anonymous wrote:
I am surprised that no one has suggested refinancing my house.  That thought had crossed my mind. 

I think that's because at 5.88%, your mortgage rate is already pretty good. I don't think refinancing would lower your payment that much on a $100,000 balance (and not worth the closing costs).

 

Also, as previous posters have pointed out, there are glaringly obvious ways to cut back on your spending, such as eating out and groceries. With a family of four I spend much less than you do. So I know that it can be done while still eating well (I promise we don't eat Ramen noodles every night! Smiley Wink

 

Plus, with just lowering your mortgage payment, there runs the risk of you finding other ways to spend that money each month, if you don't change your spending habits. I know that it'll be hard for a while, but it will enable you to become financially sound for the long run.

 

Good luck! Smiley Happy


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Anonymous
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Re: I make $100k a year and I'm still broke. Need some help.

You guys have offered some very good advice.  Thank you.  One of the areas that you have identified as an area that I could definitely work on was groceries/food/eating out.  For the month of August I spent approximately $900 on food.   Clearly I can save money in this area.  I'm just not sure how.  And I say that because even though I am keeping track of all of my expenses I am still spending $900 a month on food.   What are some of the ways that you all stay within your food budget each month?  I thought of just allowing myself a certain amount each day - but that would require going to the store every day or every other day.  (If I limit myself to $10 per day I can't get very much at (or some other fast food place) once a week.  So anyway if anyone has a system that works for them I would appreciate it.  And again, I am single, live alone, and have a child at college who lives on campus and is only home occassionally. 
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smallfry
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Re: I make $100k a year and I'm still broke. Need some help.


@Anonymous wrote:
You guys have offered some very good advice.  Thank you.  One of the areas that you have identified as an area that I could definitely work on was groceries/food/eating out.  For the month of August I spent approximately $900 on food.   Clearly I can save money in this area.  I'm just not sure how.  And I say that because even though I am keeping track of all of my expenses I am still spending $900 a month on food.   What are some of the ways that you all stay within your food budget each month?  I thought of just allowing myself a certain amount each day - but that would require going to the store every day or every other day.  (If I limit myself to $10 per day I can't get very much at (or some other fast food place) once a week.  So anyway if anyone has a system that works for them I would appreciate it.  And again, I am single, live alone, and have a child at college who lives on campus and is only home occassionally. 

I can fill up my fridge on less than $100 a week. Where do you find yourself eating out? What type of restaurants? If you do not go out socially and do watch a lot of TV you might want to keep most of your premium channels if you do watch them. If you make all of this too hard no way will you stick with it. I will share this with you. After paying child support alimony and college expenses I make approximatley what you do after taxes. I have paid off 2 -25K cars in 36 months so I know you can rid yourself of your credit card debt. Don't give up.

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Anonymous
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Re: I make $100k a year and I'm still broke. Need some help.

Well, let's see.  I would say that I eat out fast food about 65% and 35% at sit down restaurants (Longhorn,  Red Lobster, etc.)  That is in addition to when I eat at home.   I just need some kind of system.
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haulingthescoreup
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Re: I make $100k a year and I'm still broke. Need some help.

Just jumping back to the re-fi comment: you really, really (really, really, really) don't want to move CC debt over to secured debt, as in a mortgage. That's an awfully good way to lose your home.

IF debt was incurred due to a one-time disaster, like an uninsured medical crisis, that's different. God willing, lightning won't strike twice. But consumer debt, aka Buying Stuff, is really toxic. If you don't get a handle on how it got there in the first place and how to keep it from ever coming back, protect your house from it.
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Anonymous
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Re: I make $100k a year and I'm still broke. Need some help.

Good point Hauling.  Refi out of equation now.  Thanks.

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LisaPA
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Re: I make $100k a year and I'm still broke. Need some help.


@Anonymous wrote:
You guys have offered some very good advice.  Thank you.  One of the areas that you have identified as an area that I could definitely work on was groceries/food/eating out.  For the month of August I spent approximately $900 on food.   Clearly I can save money in this area.  I'm just not sure how.  And I say that because even though I am keeping track of all of my expenses I am still spending $900 a month on food.   What are some of the ways that you all stay within your food budget each month?  I thought of just allowing myself a certain amount each day - but that would require going to the store every day or every other day.  (If I limit myself to $10 per day I can't get very much at (or some other fast food place) once a week.  So anyway if anyone has a system that works for them I would appreciate it.  And again, I am single, live alone, and have a child at college who lives on campus and is only home occassionally. 

Honestly, with it just being you, I have a hard time getting my head around how you are spending that much on food even if you go out for every meal. I'm single and I love to cook and eat fancy cheeses and organic fruit and what not, but I don't come anywhere near spending that much. Do you know how to cook? If you do, cook at home more than you eat out. Don't be so restrictive that you feel cheated and miserable, but maybe if you eat out 6 nights a week, you can start off by cutting back to 3 nights, then maybe in a few weeks you can cut back to 2. Obviously, I can't know this for a fact, but I would bet that you end up throwing stuff out that goes bad before you eat it--that may be a source of wasted money as well.

 

Instead of eating fast food, try having a bowl of cereal, some scrambled eggs or a smoothie (it's basically just yogurt and fruit whizzed in the blender) for breakfast with toast or granola or an English muffin. Make a sandwich for lunch--buy the big bag of chips or pretzels and portion it out into a smaller baggie to take with you. Have a piece of fruit or a candy bar with it if you like sweets, or baby carrots/celery sticks and some Ranch dressing. For dinner, you can bake or broil a pork chop or chicken breast with rice or pasta and a vegetable. Even if you buy some pre-packaged convenience stuff that takes minimal cooking, it would inevitably be much cheaper than eating at a restaurant. If there is a Trader Joe's near you, they have a lot of great stuff portioned for individual servings that take virtually no cooking skill.

 

If you don't know a lot about cooking and can't think of ways to combine foods that aren't going to bore you to death, try a website like SparkPeople or AllRecipes. SparkPeople will actually give you a week's meal plans, recipes and a shopping list if you need a lot of handholding (it's focused on dieting, but you don't have to use it to lose weight, just track what you eat). AllRecipes is just a recipe website where you can search by the ingredients you have in the house and come up with different ways to use them.

 

Good luck!

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