Hi shelbym21,
I did a quick check on these yahoos. They've had a few lawsuits filed against them for violation of the FDCPA.
The best defense is a good offense.
The first thing that I would do is report the collection agency to your state attorney general and the FTC for violations of the FDCPA. The violations in question are:
- Contact with third parties regarding debt (your husband)
- Threatening arrest or legal action
- Seeking unjustified amounts (the "finance your payments" deal)
Next, I would find a consumer attorney, preferably one in your area that specializes in debt collection abuse, in your area ASAP. Michigan has additional rules regarding debt collection. Here they are:
You can find an attorney at this site:
The majority of the attorneys will give you a free consultation. What you want to do is explain that you feel like your rights were violated. Explain that you have been paying the bill (show proof that you have been paying, like cashed checks) but you haven't been paying frequently. Explain the whole situation that you have posted here (you tried to reason with them, they kept threatening to sue you, they refused to work a payment plan with you, etc). You want to also explain that they discussed the debt with your husband when they weren't supposed to (the debt was in your name and incurred before you are married). When you file a complaint with the SAG and the FTC, you want to tell your attorney that you've already done so. The attorney will advise you of the next course of action.