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Embarrassed- One step forward, 5 steps back

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Booner72
Senior Contributor

Re: Embarrassed- One step forward, 5 steps back


@Anonymous wrote:

Also, I have text alerts and e-mail notifications for everything regarding all of my accounts.  I've incorporated checking my daily balances into my daily routine.  I do this as soon as I wake up in the morning and do my business.  If something ain't right, I'm correcting it before I leave the house to go to work (provided the entity is open at that hour).  If they are not, I'm setting calendar and phone reminders to call them and resolve that issue that day.  I've come to learn to leave nothing to chance.


Hi jasimae - If only we had taken the time and care to do this BEFORE we got into this mess!  I'm doing the same thing.  Spreadsheets, daily checks of all accounts, 3-5 time a week pulls on my CMS.  OCD has developed. 

STARTING: 11/24/10 EQ-584 EXP-648 TU04-595
CLOSED FIRST HOME 8/19/11 EQ-630 EXP-691 TU04-653
CURRENT: EQ-701 EXP-??? TU08-720
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Anonymous
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Re: Embarrassed- One step forward, 5 steps back

I spoke with Sherman financial a few minutes ago. Actually it was ressurgent? They told me the account was sold by HSBC to LVNV? on 8/29/11. They told me if I want to find out more I should call assets acceptance. I asked it they had reported yet, and she said she didn't know. I don't want to pay it now and later find it on my credit report and be left with no leverage.
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RW771
Frequent Contributor

Re: Embarrassed- One step forward, 5 steps back

Be VERY careful when dealing with Asset Acceptance. They are a bunch of snakes. Avoid dealing with them by phone if at all possible as well. You can check my past posts on dealings with this company. Needless to say I paid it off after battling with them forever and it killed my credit. Thankfully it will fall off of my credit next year, but may end up keeping me from buying a house this fall like I had originally planned. I sent them a GW letter as a last resort and nothing. They don't care so keep this in mind when dealing with them at all costs.

 

GL!

 

Edited to correct typo

05/31/2013 672 EQ (Fico), 03/08/2012 697 TU (Fico)

Closed on my first home 12/07/11! Officially a homeowner, thanks to this forum!!!

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Anonymous
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Re: Embarrassed- One step forward, 5 steps back

Aaaahhh! i was thinking of calling them and asking if i could pay it before they report. Im gathering you think this is a BAD idea. Ugh. I feel like giving up. I have payed with cash for everything for years. The one time I try to give it another shot and rebuild i f$&* that up too.

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RW771
Frequent Contributor

Re: Embarrassed- One step forward, 5 steps back

Don't give up! Where there's a will there's a way! I understand you needing to contact them asap to find out if they've reported or not....that's totally your call. Just keep in mind they're like any other typical CA..they will hound and threaten you as much as they can to get you to pay anything. So it's probably not a bad idea to have a plan of action in mind before picking up the phone.

 

Just from my experience, everytime I called or contacted them, they updated my CR. There would be periods of time where they didn't report for months at a time and sure enough, as soon as I called, they'd play catch up and report it and update the amount they claimed I owed. So since I've been trying to clean up my credit in order to buy a house I worked out a low settlement with them knowing it would hurt at first, but eventually start going away. My credit did take a beating, but my LO told me she couldn't advise me whether to pay it or not (knowing it would hurt my credit score) but told me that it could definitely hinder me from getting approved. I thought I could settle with them, take a moderate hit and in a few months time be back on track or even get them to delete it. I sent a GW letter to the CEO last week and received a reply that they would look into it. Later that day I received a Scorewatch alert that changes had been made to that account and really nothing had changed (see posts from last week). The damage has already been done, but once I settled with them it dropped. I'm pretty much just sitting and waiting on my score to get back up where a lender would even look at me. I'm basically debt free, with the exception of my student loan payment that I've never been late on and owe 8K on.

 

Hopefully you can find out where it's at with them and work something out before any further damage is done. Hang in there and whatever you do DON'T give up!!

05/31/2013 672 EQ (Fico), 03/08/2012 697 TU (Fico)

Closed on my first home 12/07/11! Officially a homeowner, thanks to this forum!!!

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Anonymous
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Re: Embarrassed- One step forward, 5 steps back

Well, I guess I have a decision to make. The last thing that will affect my decision is avoiding collection activity. I literally could not care less if they harass me. So, do I call, write a pfd, or perhaps it would be a pay for not reporting at all in my case. It's extra frustrating because most of the problems I have had in my life (not just credit) stem from procrastinating and forgetfulness. I have been doing great with fighting my procrastination but I still forget everything. I write something down, I lose the note..... OR I get distracted and forget to write the note. My smartphone has been a huge help, but I still have to tell it to remind me.

 

Also, Thanks so much for your advice and support! It helps to keep me from bashing my head against the wall.

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NikJ4
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Re: Embarrassed- One step forward, 5 steps back

Thank God I am not the only one....I cant sleep at night because of my mess.....Thank you for validating and letting me know I am not alone.

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RW771
Frequent Contributor

Re: Embarrassed- One step forward, 5 steps back


@Anonymous wrote:

Well, I guess I have a decision to make. The last thing that will affect my decision is avoiding collection activity. I literally could not care less if they harass me. So, do I call, write a pfd, or perhaps it would be a pay for not reporting at all in my case. It's extra frustrating because most of the problems I have had in my life (not just credit) stem from procrastinating and forgetfulness. I have been doing great with fighting my procrastination but I still forget everything. I write something down, I lose the note..... OR I get distracted and forget to write the note. My smartphone has been a huge help, but I still have to tell it to remind me.

 

Also, Thanks so much for your advice and support! It helps to keep me from bashing my head against the wall.


I know what you mean. I'm the most forgetful person in the world! I'd do everything in writing when dealing with AA, however, I understand your time restraint. Good luck with getting them to agree to a pfd. I haven't had any luck with them so far, but maybe you will be one of the lucky ones that can pull it off with these guys.

05/31/2013 672 EQ (Fico), 03/08/2012 697 TU (Fico)

Closed on my first home 12/07/11! Officially a homeowner, thanks to this forum!!!

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Anonymous
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Re: Embarrassed- One step forward, 5 steps back

You are far from alone. The kicker is, all of the things that I pay every month faithfully dont help me AT ALL! I think I should be given a little credit for not using any credit.

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Anonymous
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Re: Embarrassed- One step forward, 5 steps back


@RW771 wrote:

I know what you mean. I'm the most forgetful person in the world! I'd do everything in writing when dealing with AA, however, I understand your time restraint. Good luck with getting them to agree to a pfd. I haven't had any luck with them so far, but maybe you will be one of the lucky ones that can pull it off with these guys.


 

If I did call, what's the worst case scenario? I'm not paying them over the phone. Infact, I believe they are located a few miles from me. Perhaps I could call and ask them to write something up for me (if they have not already reported and agree to not report if i pay) and I'll bring cash.

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