Gemini, I appreciate you chiming in, I enjoy reading the way you explain things, I find that your way of explaining things makes sense for "noobs" to credit like myself.
I do tend to agree with your assessment of my situation as well. My whole purpose of getting the card was to have a decent card going into my rebuild and the fact that its a "rewards" card kind of made me feel like "oh, well I need to use it for everything to get rewards cause that's what everyone else does. And that's what rewards cards are for right". But I forget that for most people with rewards cards they are using prime cards (the big dogs lol) with prime limits (read: bigger than 300 lol) that justify running all their spend through them
Yes, when I read what you write it makes lots of sense actually....why put myself out there looking thirsty and looking like a risk running up all this util, even if I do PIF, just for $1.50-3.00??? I hadn't thought about it like that until I read what you wrote....and then I can see kind of a bigger picture of what my actions may look like to another person.
I always appreciate any insight and advice anyone has for me

Thses forums have been such an asset for my credit education and hopefully I will continue to learn and have a successful rebuild. I really want to approach this rebuild cautiously because I want to lay a good solid foundation for the next step in my rebuild and for the upcoming years.
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