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I would highly recommend seeing if you can close the account while still paying it off so there is no option at all for new charges or credit pulls.
I'm glad he's taking the situation seriously and getting the balance paid down! Everyone makes mistakes and if this is his first transgression of this kind with you on the hook, then maybe he truly can learn from it and not repeat the cycle. Even if he continues to have his own debt problems in the future, perhaps he'll at least prioritize keeping you out of it.
@Officer737 wrote:Be real careful. Honestly, I would find some way to pay the loan off (new one with you only on it). pay the old loan and make him pay you instead and then pay the new loan. What's to say that it won't happen again?
I was going to recommend something similiar. Perhaps not for this time if the situation truly has turned around and you feel better about it, but for next time if something like this ever comes again. If it were me, rather than cosigning I'd either lend the money myself or take out the loan myself and get payments from him. My reason being that if you're going to tie your fiances to someone else anyway (which is what co-signing does) then better to at least be in charge of the loan and repayment.
co-signer = Co-owner. If people cannot get approved on their own is because banks KNOW THAT PERSON CANNOT REPAY BACK THE LOAN OR IS A HIGH RISK. How is cosigning going to change that? IT IS NOT. You are on the hook.
The only time I will cosign for someone is if:
Only my wife.
A car I kind of like.
I have a WORKING KEY.
KNOW THE LOCATION OF THE VEHICLE AT ANY GIVEN TIME SO THAT I CAN KEEP THE VEHICLE IF PAYMENTS ARE NOT MADE 5 DAYS BEFORE DUE DATE.
Sounds like missed payments will happen in the future....
Anytime one cosign only if ur willing and can pay the debt urself
To the OP, we all make mistakes. You had a good heart in trying to help though.
Total CL: $321.7k | UTL: 2% | AAoA: 7.0yrs | Baddies: 0 | Other: Lease, Loan, *No Mortgage, All Inq's from Jun '20 Car Shopping |
@Officer737 wrote:Be real careful. Honestly, I would find some way to pay the loan off (new one with you only on it). pay the old loan and make him pay you instead and then pay the new loan. What's to say that it won't happen again?
The above sounds like a good idea or if you don't want to pay it off another poster recommended he pay you and you pay the loan that way you know it's paid. Not sure how to keep additional credit on the loan from being taken out based on your credit but I think from your post you will determine the best course of action for this situation to keep your love and money situation straight for the future. Good luck to you. I hope both work out for you.