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Anonymous
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Re: Cosigned Like A Fool

I would highly recommend seeing if you can close the account while still paying it off so there is no option at all for new charges or credit pulls.

Message 11 of 19
Kevin86475391
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Re: Cosigned Like A Fool

I'm glad he's taking the situation seriously and getting the balance paid down! Everyone makes mistakes and if this is his first transgression of this kind with you on the hook, then maybe he truly can learn from it and not repeat the cycle. Even if he continues to have his own debt problems in the future, perhaps he'll at least prioritize keeping you out of it.


@Officer737 wrote:

Be real careful. Honestly, I would find some way to pay the loan off (new one with you only on it). pay the old loan and make him pay you instead and then pay the new loan. What's to say that it won't happen again? 


 

I was going to recommend something similiar. Perhaps not for this time if the situation truly has turned around and you feel better about it, but for next time if something like this ever comes again. If it were me, rather than cosigning I'd either lend the money myself or take out the loan myself and get payments from him. My reason being that if you're going to tie your fiances to someone else anyway (which is what co-signing does) then better to at least be in charge of the loan and repayment.

 

 

 

 

Message 12 of 19
creditgambler2018
Regular Contributor

Re: Cosigned Like A Fool

co-signer = Co-owner. If people cannot get approved on their own is because banks KNOW THAT PERSON CANNOT REPAY BACK THE LOAN OR IS A HIGH RISK. How is cosigning going to change that? IT IS NOT. You are on the hook.

 

The only time I will cosign for someone is if:

 

Only my wife.

A car I kind of like.

I have a WORKING KEY.

KNOW THE LOCATION OF THE VEHICLE AT ANY GIVEN TIME SO THAT I CAN KEEP THE VEHICLE IF PAYMENTS ARE NOT MADE 5 DAYS BEFORE DUE DATE.

 

Sounds like missed payments will happen in the future....

Message 13 of 19
Anonymous
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Re: Cosigned Like A Fool

Anytime one cosign only if ur willing and can pay the debt urself

Message 14 of 19
RonM21
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Re: Cosigned Like A Fool

To the OP, we all make mistakes.  You had a good heart in trying to help though.



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Message 15 of 19
Anonymous
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Re: Cosigned Like A Fool


@Officer737 wrote:

Be real careful. Honestly, I would find some way to pay the loan off (new one with you only on it). pay the old loan and make him pay you instead and then pay the new loan. What's to say that it won't happen again? 


The above sounds like a good idea or if you don't want to pay it off another poster recommended he pay you and you pay the loan that way you know it's paid.  Not sure how to keep additional credit on the loan from being taken out based on your credit but I think from your post you will determine the best course of action for this situation to keep your love and money situation straight for the future.  Good luck to you. I hope both work out for you.

Message 16 of 19
Anonymous
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Re: Cosigned Like A Fool

I would be furious. Why should you take the hit when he has means to pay. This would have worked better as a loan in retrospect, but your reasoning for the cosign was sound at the time. This is helpful info and I appreciate you sharing this. It wouldn't have occurred to me that my partner would change the terms so I was more on the hook, after doing him the favor.
Message 17 of 19
Anonymous
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Re: Cosigned Like A Fool

My mom asked me to cosign for her. I said absolutely not! It's a huge risk. Even more so when you have a house, cars and other assets!
Message 18 of 19
Anonymous
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Re: Cosigned Like A Fool

I like the idea of making him pay you. And you pay off the loan.
Message 19 of 19
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