It should never come to a point where one would hurt their mate. The abuse signs are there eary and they are not going to get any better. This is the second time this has happened and the third could be much worse, I hope not but one never knows. Domestic abuse is real and he should break off the relationship. However, it is easier said then done but domestic abuse is not something to be played with. All is take is for that one time for my mate to put his hands on me and I am done. I don't play around with hitting each other out of rage or anger. He is much better than to have to deal with being abused. He does not have to take this from anyone, and there is some one out there that will love him and does not have to put their hands on him. She has already hit him where it has put a mark on him, just think about how much worse it could of been. Arguments does not have to turn into rage where domestic abuse is involved. Yes please talk to him, he is much better than that and these are the early stages of domestic abuse. I currently counsel people on dealng with domestic abuse and how to get out of those situations. I wish him the best and I hope he really take your conversation to heart when you have it. Abuse is not to be tolerated in any relatonship.
Thank you for the wealth of knowledge I have learned from these forums. I am logging off as of November 9, 2022. I wish everyone great success.
