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@Anonymous wrote:
I can see where you are coming from HTSU, but my whole argument is that it is irrelevant whether or not the AU has earned the right to get the perks from the credit boost it is that that person should be held accountable for that debt.In your argument, you state that the unemployed spouse has earned that credit history but where is the accountability? If the "household" goes belly-up, shouldn't both parties be held responsible?I have to admit, I felt a little offended that you would assume I (as a young woman) did not appreciate what my foremothers did for me in terms of the rights and privaleges I have today. With that being said, I would hope that you would appreciate the fact that I, who works full time, goes to school part time, and raises a 9 month old by myself would be a little perturbed at the fact that there are people out there mooching (not everyone but you know what I mean) off their SO's, parents' credit histories.I might have a measely score but I da** sure earned it myself!
MeganML84 wrote:I can see where you are coming from HTSU, but my whole argument is that it is irrelevant whether or not the AU has earned the right to get the perks from the credit boost it is that that person should be held accountable for that debt.In your argument, you state that the unemployed spouse has earned that credit history but where is the accountability? If the "household" goes belly-up, shouldn't both parties be held responsible?
denbar2003 wrote:I live in a community property state. Although I hope I never have to find out exactly how the community property legalities would work out in the event of divorce or my DHs death, it is my understanding that whether or not I am a joint holder, authorized user, or not on an account of my DH's at all ... I will still be accountable for debts incurred during our marriage.
No apologies necessary. I understand where you are coming from too. I do not know how it feels to be a SAHM and run a household, and I imagine it is as difficult as being a working mom, (ahh, that never--ending battle between the SAHMs and the working momshaulingthescoreup wrote:
I apologize for offending. Maybe we can cancel out?I often feel stuck in the middle, defending to my mother's generation my choice to go back to work, and explaining the necessity of working for most women nowadays, and then defending to the next generation along that what stay-at-home wives and mothers did was important and valuable. One foot in each world!
I completely agree about the mooching by total strangers and also by young people off their parents' credit. AU status for kids is great, if it is used to give young people (as in high schoolers) practice in learning to manage credit, so that they don't blow the chances when they get their own cards. There is no reason that they need to get credit from their parents. They start out with a perfectly good figure and the opportunity to get good introductory cards, especially if they are students, and build their own. Neither DH nor I were AU's on our parents' cards, and none of our three kids were or are AU's on ours. But it is not mooching to give credit to the at-home spouse. If our household had gone belly-up, I can assure you that I would be have been equally responsible and accountable for keeping that card currently paid. It was wrong to treat single parents as second-class citizens, as was done until so very recently (and sometimes still is done), and it is wrong to treat at-home spouses as if they had no role in managing the family credit card. I suppose if we had all known 20 or 30 years ago how attitudes would change, we would have all had joint status from the get-go. Without a time machine, there's not a lot we can do about it now.
Congratulations on your 9-month-old, who I'm sure is the joy of your life! I had three kids in 4 1/2 years, and for years, DH traveled for 16 days and was then home for 5. I was a part-time student during that time, but my brain turned quickly to goo, and I put it on hold until they got older. I really do admire you for what you're pulling off. Thanks for sharing your viewpoint!
TheDarke wrote:Come on, give me a break. Piggybacking is helpful in many ways and has helped a lot of people, ecspecially the younger people trying to establish themselves. To make a statement that this is not the Mafia, is ridiculous........when in fact, the credit bureaus are just that, the new age of strong arming society.
I am sorry, but there is a difference between being added to a parent's account and "buying" AU status that bears no relation to one's spending patterns. And I repeat - it is the latter that has caused the problems, not the former
bistraung wrote:Piggybacking is essential in today's economy.It is the one way that you can ensure that your family members, especially your children will do better than you have done. In this modern world, credit is becoming more important than cash. Credit gives you a way in to the credit scoring market without having owned a house or a car. A person can do wonders with a good credit score. If a parent takes the time out to add someone to their credit cards and what not, they are making it more possible for their kids to start their own businesses if they so choose or get a decent job, let's say, in the financial sector if that's what they so choose. A person should not have to be old in order to do these things. There is nothing shady about piggybacking. People who add other people to their credit cards are still primarily responsible for getting the cards paid off in full and on time every month. The way I see it, it is a practice that other people are jealous of simply because they do not have anyone to piggyback them or the people who are willing to piggyback them, don't have the decent credit to do so.I say, if piggybacking is so unethical, let's not stop there. Let's eliminate the requirement of references on employment applications or background checks for people applying for highly sensitive jobs.Of course, I'm being fecicious when I say that, but do you see what I mean?