For the first half of our marriage, we had quasi-seperate finances (two joint accounts, so that debit cards didn't cause issues), and seperate credit cards. Later, when I got involved in an LLC/partnership for business reasons, we completely seperated things (so that nothing could come back on him if the business went bad). We are both on the mortgage, but that's it. He pays the household bills, I direct deposit money into his household account. We both still consider it "our" money, we consult on purchases etc, and pass money back and forth freely, but I like knowing that if one of us has a legal issue, everything we own won't get frozen.
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