Isn't that funny. I read posts and feel like it's me, too. hahah
Literally going through my stack years ago, making a plan and getting a 2nd job - made all the difference.
I laughed when I called an old Collection Agency asking him to delete this old, but paid account. I asked if he remembered me and he said "oh yes

" ... It was a small consistent payment for what seemed like FOREVER !!! hahha But he was more than happy to help since I told him I was cleaning up old things on my report.
I'm so happy you're in a good place, too. Good luck and thanks for your kind words.