Nah, don't talk to them to get info. Don't answer at all as a matter of fact, get call ID and an answering machine that records to tape if he's getting lots of them.
Not sure what progress his lawyer is making with him but if DH is paying the atty... that atty should be aware of what accounts to send a C&D to.
DH should send DVs to all CAs. Hopefully the lawyer advised him to do so first.

You should ask DH how things are going and explain that he might want to check out these forums to make sure that he's doing everything in the best possible way that he can.
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