@UncleB wrote: Of course you'll definitely want to check with a lawyer, but the bank accounts might not be as much of a problem as you think (other than the fallout from an upset SIL, of course). As for the POA, it can be revoked with a notorized form (very similar process to setting it up) - again, lawyer stuff. Side note: In my family's situation we hesitated too long to get the lawyer involved, and things almost got really complicated before hospice was brought in and a few weeks later she passed. That hospice period (and the months before) were precarious, since had something beyond paying routine bills come up we had nothing legal indicating she was incapacitated. Absolutely would need to discuss with the attorney if a POA revocation would hold up given that they've already made comments regarding possiblity of MIL being declared incompetent. As for the bank account(s), steps should be discussed with attorney but it can help with outlining the best path if it's known how the current account(s) is/are structured i.e. if an account is a joint account and if not who is the primary. Knowing when the account was actually opened could at some point be useful as there are potential future senarios where the state could find it relevant. If there are concerns or questions about how money has been spent it might be worth discussion with the attorney whether the current account could/should be reviewed.
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